Being a mariners wife
Being a mariner's wife is not easy....blah blah blah
Being a wife or a mother itself is a great responsibility so not as easy so whats special about being a mariners wife.
I do not wish to repeat the same old tape as we have all heard it repeatedly.
Times have changed...what if i say being a mariners wife is one of the best things that happen to you.From meeting wives of fellow mariners who have no fear speaking their heart out aloud.Not to mention the numerous kitty parties and get togethers celebrating every precious moment in life.Majority of wives as a have seen are well qualified ,having a mind of their own and most important strong thinkers.
Todays mariners have access to internet 24*7 and available to chat just as any hubby.As I see the world arround me most hubby's are out office trips meeting strict deadlines not being able to make time for family.What I understand is that its a matter of time management and taking efforts to make relationships work.
Wheather a mariner or an IT professional a man who spends quality time with his child excels as a father.
We all put efforts in one way or other to make a system called family work.Mariner has his way of contributing.Gone are the days when a sailor hardly met his family and had no updates about his home.Technology advanced, we evolved and its time to make new family system work.This new family system has its values and traditions which are influenced by globalisation and diversity in unity.
In this system we spend vacations with family,are digitally connected.We may miss celebrating every birthday and festivals every year but we know the value of time together with family and spend it wisely.
So I conclude my words saying being a mariners wife is not an ocean of harships..its a ocean of opportunities, its only your attitude that matters.
Great going girl... Keep writing... Last one is too good. I liked it!
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ReplyDeleteGood write-up remya
ReplyDeleteThanks Saumi ,Supi and Saroj
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